In Conversation With: Your Queer Celebrant

Celebrating love in all its forms is at the heart of what Divina, also known as “Your Queer Celebrant,” does. Inspired by her own experiences as a queer person of colour, she fills a vital role in the wedding industry by creating inclusive, meaningful ceremonies that honour each couple’s unique story. Her thoughtful approach ensures every wedding reflects the values, traditions, and love that define the people at its centre.

Interview Alexander Ross

“I became a celebrant because I was looking for a queer POC celebrant but couldn’t find one. I decided I was going to fill this role.”

What inspired you to become a celebrant, and how did you discover your calling in this role?

I became a celebrant because I was looking for a queer POC celebrant but I couldn't find one. I decided I was going to fill this role. I also have always loved the idea of being my friend's wedding celebrant.

Can you share a bit about what it means to you to be "Your Queer Celebrant" and how you approach inclusivity in your ceremonies?

I named my business "Your Queer Celebrant" to show people I am not just queer-friendly, but I am also queer myself. I try to approach inclusivity in everything I do, especially by consulting with clients about how they want to work together. I always ask couples if they have any cultural or religious traditions they want to include in their ceremonies, and I do research and consultation on how to approach this in a respectful way. I am cautious not to assume about people's gender identity and I include a pronouns section in my inquiry form. I always speak to couples about including an Acknowledgement of Country in their ceremony and I include one on my website.

What is the most rewarding part of creating meaningful ceremonies, especially for LGBTQ+ couples?

The most rewarding part is the end of the ceremony when the couple have just been presented to their friends and family for the first time as married. It's beautiful seeing how happy they are.

How do you go about personalising each ceremony to truly reflect the couple’s journey and values?

I ask the couple a lot of questions about their story and I try to get an idea of what their values are. I also ask them if they have any values they want to include in their ceremony. 

Are there any life experiences or personal beliefs that shape your work as a celebrant?

My personal experience as a queer person of colour who has also gotten married and had to deal with a family with conservative values.

When you’re not celebrating love with couples, what brings you joy and balance in your life?

I love hanging out with my wife, my friends and family. I do a lot of crafts and try to build community around me.

What do you hope couples remember most about you and the ceremony you create for them?

I hope they remember how easy it was to work with me, that their family and friends understood their story, and that they saw themselves reflected in the ceremony.

Find Your Queer Celebrant online by CLICKING HERE or follow on Instagram at @your.queer.celebrant

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