Get To Know Sydney Celebrant Marry Me Sarah B
Marry Me Sarah B is a celebrant who believes in creating deeply personal and authentic ceremonies that reflect each couple’s unique love story. With her warm and genuine approach, Sarah ensures that every ceremony is a joyous and unforgettable celebration, inspiring couples to cherish their special day.
Interview Alexander Ross
“Tailoring bespoke ceremonies for couples all begins with connection; I ensure any choices the couple makes feel good and authentic to them, creating a unique and meaningful experience.”
What inspired you to become a celebrant and how did you begin your journey in this profession?
I became a celebrant after going to many weddings and seeing celebrants do their thing and thought ‘Ooh! I would love to do that!’ I loved the idea of being part of a couples ‘best day of their life’ and dressing up and being part of that excited love bubble! I just thought that being a celebrant would be so joyful and a job that would bring so much happiness. So, when I was on maternity leave, I did my Certificate in Celebrancy and it all started from there!
Could you share your approach to tailoring bespoke ceremonies for couples?
Tailoring bespoke ceremonies for couples all begins with connection. When I have an introduction call with potential couples, I am obviously asking them lots of questions about them and what they envisage for their day, but I am also making sure we share common values and appreciation of what a ceremony can be. It’s like going for a date, you know usually within 10 minutes if that person is for you- I feel the same with couples. Once we feel there is a match and they book me, I provide a Ceremony Planning Booklet that is the A-Z of all things ceremonies and we discuss options from there. I always make sure that any choices the couple makes feel GOOD and AUTHENTIC to them, so no script or ceremony could ever be copy and pasted for another!
What distinguishes your style and services from other celebrants in the industry?
My style has been created over time. Each and every ceremony I have learnt something but what hasn’t changed is that I am my true self. I am not trying to be anyone else, so what you see is who I am in real life! When you book me you gain a new friend, someone you can comfortably share all your stories about your loved one to and who can then give you the ceremony you dreamed of! I describe my ceremonies as full of love with a side of cheekiness and 99% of the time, guests come up to me afterwards asking how they have never met me before as obviously it seems like I am a good friend of the couple! Which I take as a huge compliment- that it feels like I am a natural part of their ceremony and one of them.
From your experience, what are some customary elements that couples frequently request for their wedding ceremonies?
I would say most couples request to have personal vows (and this is my personal favourite part to have!) It is not a legal requirement but there is something so special about a couple writing their own heartfelt vows. I always get them to send them to me (so I can print them on personalised vow cards of course!) but also to make sure they are of equal length to their partners and are on par with eachother. I would never want anyone to be embarrassed on the day that one was better than the other. A lot more couples are asking how they can get family members and friends involved in the ceremony. This could include readings, helping with the rings or even pronouncing them married!
Would you mind recounting a particularly memorable wedding ceremony you've conducted, and what made it stand out?
One of the most memorable weddings I did was for my sister-in-law Nicole and her husband Tyron. My brother unfortunately passed away from a work accident at 26 years old, leaving behind his wife and newborn daughter Ruby. 10 years later, his wife asked me to marry her and her partner Tyron and it was the ultimate gift to give. I know my brother would have been proud of me and by me officiating the ceremony, in turn it was giving the blessing of the Brown family to their union. It makes me tear up now just writing this! It was a glorious day and I am so proud I was part of it.
What guidance would you offer to couples currently planning their wedding ceremonies?
My guidance to couples currently planning their wedding is to clear their minds of what they THINK they should include! There is 3 minutes of legal wording in a ceremony and the rest is choose your own adventure. Only do what feels right for the both of you, there is to be no ‘shoulding’ in the ceremony. For example ‘Oh I SHOULD wear white’ ‘ I should have my Dad walk me down the aisle’ ‘I should have a wedding party’ I love when couples are direct and clear on what feels good to them- and then I can reflect it in their ceremony. You can do whatever you like! (of course with the 3 minutes of legal stuff!)
As a celebrant, what do you consider the pivotal aspect of a wedding ceremony, and why?
I believe the pivotal aspect of a ceremony is the fact that a wedding without a ceremony- is just a party! Choosing a good celebrant is crucial for the proceedings leading after the ceremony as it’s what starts the vibe for the rest of the day. So the most important part is the scripting and how a celebrant make everyone feel. A fabulous ceremony will give all the guests warm and happy feels, make them realise EXACTLY why they are there celebrating that day and they will learn something they don’t know about the couple.
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